For the last eight months, Wolf and Anita Gottschalk of Surrey, B.C have been forced to live apart. On top of their heartbreaking situation, the Gottschalks must endear tear-jerking goodbyes multiple times a week.
A family member, usually their granddaughter Ashley Bartyik, drives the nearly one hour commute multiple times a week so that her 81-year-old grandmother Anita can see her 83-year-old grandfather Wolf, who has now been diagnosed with lymphoma in addition to his dementia.
"After 62 years together in marriage they have been separated for 8 months due to backlogs and delays by our health care system, whom have the power to have my grandpa moved to the same care facility as my grandmother. They cry every time they see each other, and it is heartbreaking," she continued.
Though Wolf's debilitating mental state "grows stronger each day," his memories with Anita and his love for her has yet to fade.
"We are afraid however that if they are living apart much longer, his memory of her won't stay. This has been a strain on our family, making the 30 minute commute to bring her to see him, every second day, so he does not forget her," Bartyik shared." msn
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother,
and cleave to his wife;
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.
What therefore God hath joined together,
let not man put asunder.
Mark 10:6/Matthew 19:6
