And the king said again unto Esther on the second day at the banquet of wine, What is thy petition, queen Esther? and it shall be granted thee: and what is thy request? and it shall be performed, even to the half of the kingdom.
Esther 7:2
Notice that the king has to ask Esther the 2nd day again what is her request. She seems someone reluctant to ask while the king was more than willing to comply. Same thing between you & God.
If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
Matthew 7:11