He that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile. 1 Peter 3:10
"Cultivate
Christlike love.
Let all that you do bear the impress of this love. 
---Those who do not speak the words and do the works of Christ are trying
to climb into heaven by some other way than through the door....
Do not endeavor to preserve your cold, un-Christlike dignity.
This is
not religion; it is not Christianity.
Put away your cast-iron dignity.
God has not
told you to cherish any such thing.
God is the eternal, uncreated fountain of all good."
E.G.W.