Tuesday, April 9, 2019

The "Really" File - (Inventors over at Victoria Milan)

...inventors of evil things.... Romans 1:30

"What is Married Dating?
Put simply married dating is the act of discreetly looking for an additional partner while currently married or attached. 
Who is doing it?

Europe’s largest married dating platform, Victoria Milan, has over 6 Million verified users on their site. Their launch into the US in 2018 added 2.25 million US members to that list and purportedly expect to add another 3.33 million US members by 2020.

To answer the question; everyone from lawyers, to soccer moms, to your family physician has at least dipped their toes in the water. 
From the "Really" File
Married dating apparently does not discriminate and large portion of us have already had our curiosity piqued.

Over 30% of new users on Victoria Milan are female and the ratio of active men to women on the site is 1:1 . Victoria Milan is 100% free for women. Men can sign up and explore for free but must subscribe to interact (become active members) with women they fancy.

The common thread between both men and women seems to be the desire to feel alive again, experience something thrilling, and reignite the passion in their lives.
Top Reasons for Men:
  1. His wife’s libido has dropped after marriage, children, etc.    
  2. His wife is more preoccupied with being a mother than a partner.
  3. His wife no longer makes him feel sexy, masculine, virile.  
  4. He is nostalgic for his free and wild youth   
  5. The relationship is dull. Same conversation over and over again, same position over and over again, etc.  
Top Reasons for Women:
  1.      Her husband no longer makes her feel sexy/desirable. 
  2.      Wants to explore sexual desires she was too immature or unaware to in her youth.
  3.      Her husband views her as a caregiver not a sexual being.
  4.      Her husband initiates sex like she is a robot. No romance.
  5.      No passion, excitement, thrill.
 
How are people Married Dating?
It used to be that people would seek out a “work-wife” or “work-husband”. In fact work was the #1 place people would have affairs. However, that seems to have changed in the last 5 years. People are more worried about the potential HR risks, legal liabilities, and general lack of discretion, this type of behaviour might cause at work. As such the safest way to “scratch this itch” is now online." TheOsloDaily
REALLY?