Friday, August 8, 2014

IN the NEWS - "Beta Marriages"?

"............millennials may change the game when it comes to how we approach marriage.
Beta: The union can be formalized or dissolved after a two-year trial period.
One of the arguments is that since millennials are used to having many options in every other area of their lives, why would marriage be any different?
This is a generation that is used to this idea that everything is in beta, that life is a work in progress, so the idea of a beta marriage makes sense," the study's author, Melissa Lavigne-Delville, told me. "It's not that they're entirely noncommittal, it's just that they're nimble and open to change."
 The larger takeaway seems to be that in a changing world, millennials will be able make decisions about marriage that are right for them with less stigma. It's not like anyone is stopping couples from drawing up their own beta marriage contracts right now, but it would probably be met with some skeptisim. Millennials are already much more chill about things like gay marriage and premarital cohabitation so it stands to reason that eventually, a situation like a beta marriage might be more widely accepted." Jezebel.com

Why are churches & society pandering to this younger generation that seems to be, much more than usual, rooted in self?
It's a scandal when people waste their lives on things they must do in the darkness where no one will see. Rip the cover off those frauds and see how attractive they look in the light of Christ. So watch your step. Use your head.  
Ephesians 12:12,13,15 TheMessage